Kristin Cavallari opens up about divorce and dating in a new interview, including how she won’t get back together with old flame/new podcast partner Stephen Colletti.
The reality star openly answered all questions on the subject Call her daddy Podcast, including the harder ones – about what made her marriage to former NFL star Jay Cutler “toxic,” a word she’s used to describe it in the past.
“So here’s my only thing because I have three kids with him,” he said Very Cavallari alum began. “I’m very careful about what I say – if you and I don’t have mics in front of us I would tell you – but that’s her dad and my eldest google us right now and I just want to be very careful with my mum.” never said anything bad about my father growing up [after they divorced] and I really respected that and I want to be that kind of mom.”
That means: “It was poisonous. Point. End of the story. That’s all I have to say,” replied the 35-year-old.
Cavallari said when she and Cutler got together, after-The hills After a few years as a party girl, “He was perfect for me at the time in my life,” saying it was “easy and fun.” However, she also spoke about “red flags” about “deal-breaker” behavior.
“I canceled [our] engagement [in 2011 for] I got divorced for the same reason,” she said. ‘For the same reasons, I should say. I guess if there’s one takeaway from that is, you can’t ignore red flags.”
They announced their split in 2020 but said it was long overdue. “It took me a couple of years to actually pull the trigger, to be honest,” she said.
The Uncommon James founder called the divorce scary, sad, but also “the best thing there is… With any relationship, you just have to be clear about what are deal breakers for you… and I was really miserable. That was the bottom line. And I was in an unhealthy relationship. So it’s not worth it to me. Also, I didn’t want my kids to think this was normal. I wanted them to see me happy and see me – not now, but eventually – with someone who really respects me and treats me the way i need to be treated.“
Since then, she’s been back in the dating game. Despite the toxicity, a few dates were with her ex-husband. She also shared a kiss with Ex Colletti, her high school boyfriend Lagoon beach Fans Remember and Co-Host of Her New Podcast, Back to the beach with Kristin and Stephen.
“I took him to dinner almost two years ago and we kissed which was fun,” she said of her reunion with Colletti. “I was actually dating someone at the time – [and] just make up for the lost time – so … it somehow didn’t make anything out of it” more.
She claimed that was the end, saying, “When I’m done with someone, I’m done. It’s like a light switch goes off and I can’t go back.”
She’s had a lot of fun dating stories, both from then to now. In one, she spoke about dating an “actor” she didn’t identify two months earlier. The meeting went horribly wrong – in the middle of a busy bar/restaurant in LA.
“He slammed drinks,” she recalled. “We sat at the bar. It’s bloody busy. He gets up to reenact a stunt he did [and] accidentally runs into the waiter and says, ‘Oh, I’m so sorry.’ I thought: please, fuck, sit down. He’s causing all this commotion in the middle of Laurel Hardware.”
She also spoke of being stalked by younger men.
“I’ve dressed a lot of guys in their 20s,” she said. “I don’t know what this is about… You know I have three kids, right?”
For the record, Cavallari said 30 is her minimum age, while a 45-year-old businessman who isn’t on social media is her ideal. She pointed to Alexander Skarsgård, from Big little liesas her celebrity crush.
Cavallari also said that a man who’s secure in himself is a must — as is someone who’s okay with who she’s dating, and that’s really menacing … You get really jealous and insecure.”
She also wants him to make the first move – but not, we repeat, not via DM.
“Where I am in my life right now, I want to be followed,” she said. “I fucking want to be wooed. I want the man to make a damn effort. Because folks now – again, I’ve been with Jay for 10 years, this is my first date in the social media world – it’s like it’s a shitty shit show out there. I hate every second of it. But the boys are damn lazy now – and they’re always looking for the next best thing. So it’s like, No, I’m sorry I don’t have time for your little cops anymore *** Let me see how serious you mean it and make an effort So, no, I’m not making the first move.
“Now I’m so different about dating,” she said. “I see s*** a mile away and it’s like, no, I’m actually not going to take this.”
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